This is getting interesting...lol. A response from
a married woman to the 'pissed off single girl'
who wrote in earlier here. Enjoy below...
Dear Phillipz, on behalf of married women
this is a response to the single lady’s
comment.
Dear spinster (Aka pissed single girl),
If you truly value marriage and plan to
have yours one day then the excuse that
you were lured or enticed to follow a
married man is not an excuse. The fact is
that you have no morals or respect for
your body or even the marriage you so
desire to have one day.
I am not an IG or twitter or even whatever
social media platform person and do not
encourage these married ladies to use it let
alone pass any silly message through it to
anyone be it single or married.
Marriage is not a joke so do not come to the
public and put your marriage under unnecessary
scrutiny. And yes like the single lady said deal
with your man and stop blaming anyone.
Having said that, I see where the ladies who
lamented are coming from – truth be told men
will not date themselves (well, unless he
swings both ways!!!) so if we women would say
no to the advancement of these so called horny
married men (Aka Oke mkpi) the world would
be a better place. If girls would say an emphatic
NO when a married guy chases her no matter
the splendor he showers on her and then the
next girl and then the next….. of course they
would get the message. But noooo…. In fact
girls are even the ones that chase after the men
themselves rolling their booties and tits all
around the place in nicely packaged skirts and
blouses, seeking the man’s attention just
because he is what you would have liked in a
husband. Yes you find him attractive but he is
taken and it’s your loss... please move on and
find the young single guy who has the qualities
the married man you admire has (though with
much less money) invest in him i.e. time and
encouragement and hopefully he would soon
sprout and become the next best thing that you
would also be proud of.
Comot eye for person own (he says his wife is
lazy, she’s fat, he has invested this and that on
her already) my dear don’t you already know
that a man would say whatever it takes to get
in your panties? Why are you being ignorant?
He’s a man with a daily erection and roaming
eyes. Don’t fool yourself he’s probably not
chasing you alone, he just needs a corner
marking!!! Don’t feel special cos he has the
money enough to squander on you and 4 other
girls. He’s trying his luck anyone wey gel he go
take or two sef. The more the merrier, the
happier his manhood. Period!!
The problem we women have which is what the
IG & twitter marries ladies were trying to say
(through a wrong means of course) is that
women are our own worst enemy. We are bitter
at other women’s success, we envy what other
woman have a wish to destroy it is given a
chance.
Women…… lets change our ways, be proud of
your fellow woman and celebrate her, admire
rather than envy her, pray for her, wish her
well and guess what? Yours will come. Having
said that, married women I beg you in God’s
name do your best to look good. It is not a sin
to look “HOT” yes I dare say it look “HOT” that
is what these young girls have over you. They
look hot and sexy... it’s not just looking pretty,
come out looking sexy and let other men check
you out as you walk by. Your stupid husband
will notice and sit up. He knows and sees that
you are not so desirable and even if he messes
up you no dey go anywhere because market
done fall press you.
I am married and have been for almost 10 years
but when I walk into a room, men, boys check
me out. I have been with the same man for over
14 years now and haven’t been with anyone
else and don’t intend to. But I tell you I enjoy
the stares I get cause even my hubby dey fear
to let me waka go toilet alone… also please and
please lose weight, do sit ups stop the silly
excuses oh I done have time, the kids this, the
kids that ,, bla bla bla… no be you first born
pikin. I have got kids myself and still try to
find the time to look good.
"Married woman"
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