How to find a Lady/your G-spot. 18+ only

The G-spot is one of life’s mysteries, much
like the Loch Ness monster and the Holy
Grail. Scientists and sexperts have been
arguing over the G-spot for years but most
now agree that for some women it does
exist, and it can lead to amazing orgasms.
So
here’s how to find your G-spot and 5 great tips on
how to use it – and don’t worry if you don’t think
you have a G-spot because these tips will have you
orgasming for England anyway!
What is your G-spot?
For those believers out there the G-spot is a super-
sensitive area found inside the front wall of the
vagina. When it’s stimulated, like the clitoris, it
can bring you to orgasm quicker than just
penetrative sex.
Why’s a G-spot so special?
Deborah Sundahl, expert on female ejaculation
and author of Female Ejaculation and the G- spot
says, ‘ The G-spot has a unique orgasm, which is
different from the clitoris. This is due to the fact
that the prostate has a different nerve (pelvic)
than the clitoris (pudendal), and therefore the G-
spot has a different orgasmic sensation. This
feeling is one of deep, melting love, and women
love it!’
Does every woman have a G-spot?
Well, the jury’s still out on this one, sexpert Lou
Paget says, ‘Yes, the G-spot exists, but every
woman is different. For some it’s an off- the-wall
experience and others feel nothing. In the same
way that some women have especially sensitive
nipples and others don’t.’
Why do we have a G-spot?
Some medical evidence suggests that the G- spot
has a purpose other than to make you feel really,
really good! Sexpert Emily Dubberley, says, ‘Some
scientists believe the G-spot can help ease
childbirth because when the G-spot is stimulated
the pain threshold is increased by up to 84%.’ So if
you’re planning a baby any time soon, it could be
worth investigating!
Can the G-spot give you a guaranteed
orgasm?
‘There’s no such thing as a guaranteed orgasm,’
says Emily, ‘But knowing whether G-spot
stimulation works for you is certainly a good thing
– the better you know your body, the higher your
chances of having an orgasm.’
Is it true the G-spot can make you
ejaculate?
Recent research found that some women can
ejaculate through sex, foreplay or by having their
G-spot stimulated but it’s different to the way men
ejaculate – women do it before they orgasm. But
don’t get hung up on whether you are ejaculating
or not. Sex and relationship psychologist Dr Petra
Boynton says, ‘Some men are convinced that if a
woman doesn’t ejaculate she hasn’t had a ‘good’
orgasm. But this is often an idea that comes from
porn and usually it’s faked or it’s just urine. If
you’re being made to feel inferior make it clear to
him this isn’t a turn on for you, instead show him
what does
work.’
How do I find my G-spot?
There’s no harm in having a feel around yourself
to see if you can find it. Inside the vagina there’s a
small patch of ridged, knobbly tissue about 2 1/2 –
5 cms. It’s on the front wall of the vagina, so if
you’re lying on your back and you can feel it with
your fingers, they would be pointing up to the
ceiling rather than down to the floor. You should
notice a rougher patch of skin in comparison to
the smooth
areas either side – bingo! You’ve found it. Or try
this tip from Lou Paget: ‘Rather than lying on a
bed it may be easier to be squat down and feel
inside of yourself, but make sure you’re a bit
aroused first. Women’s fingers can sometimes be
too small or short to reach inside so a G- spot toy
or a partner’s fingers might find it more easily.’ ‘It
is possible to actually sit down in front of a big
mirror on the floor, spread the labia lips, push out
with the vaginal muscles
and see the G-spot!’ says Deborah Sundahl. ‘You
can see the ridges. I advise all women to take a
look and get acquainted with this lovely female
organ.’
I can’t feel anything!
Don’t worry, you’re completely normal. Dr Petra
says, ‘You’re not superior if you have a part of
your vagina that feels good when touched, and
you’re not abnormal if you don’t get turned on by
having the G-spot/area stimulated – we’re all
different. And don’t
forget the other areas of the body that turn you
on.’
Oh! Yes, I’ve found it – now what do I do?
Just follow our 5 expert G-spot moves to maximise
your pleasure!