18+ ONLY: Sex Questions You Were Too Shy To Ask Finally Answered

There are some questions we don’t share with anyone because they’re, well, too personal and embarrassing.

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Here is just a small list of the most common and quirky queries with the answers, so feel free to educate yourself with our assistance. Know more, feel more confident, relax and enjoy the moment

THE QUESTIONS. 

Can you get pregnant from oral sex?

No. Sperm cells can wriggle their way past all sorts of obstacles but they haven’t quite figured out how to dodge major organs like hearts and lungs and stuff to get to the bit where they can fertilise an egg.

If he wakes up with an erection, has he been dreaming of sex?

No. Most men have between 4-5 erections a night as a result of their sleep cycle. They may also have a biological purpose by ensuring the penis is regularly pumped full of oxygenated blood! Women also get ‘erections’ during the night: though because the clitoris is tiny, no-one notices!

During intercourse, his testicles disappear! Should I be worried?

It can be a bit alarming the first time you notice but nothing dodgy is happening. The testicles retract into the body because muscles in the area pull the scrotum toward it during sex. It’s all to do with good old Mother Nature trying to keep things at the right temperature. She’s also being protective and keeping them out the way of possible knocks during a particularly enthusiastic sex session.

What happens if I lose a condom inside me?

The good news is it won’t get lost or move upwards. To remove it, squat down, reach in with a finger and feel around inside. If you can’t find it, your doctor can. And you might need a visit anyway because the semen disappeared up there along with the condom. You could get pregnant or contract an STI. 

Will too much sex make me too loose?

Quite the opposite – not enough sex can! Vagina’s are more a case of ‘use it or lose it’ (muscle tone that is). Popping out babies and age cause our pelvic floor muscles to loosen and atrophy. Regular sex helps tone them to keep your vagina tighter.

Will anything happen to me if I swallow semen?

Health-wise, it’s not bad for you since semen is mostly water and mucus. There are traces of citric acid, salt, chloride, ammonia, absorbic acid, calcium, carbon dioxide and cholesterol (sperm are a mere 1% of ejaculate).The only problem though is rather a large one – if he carries a sexually transmitted disease (gonorrhoea, chlamydia, hepatitis B, the HIV virus), you may get it. There is some good news though – it’s not fattening! There’s a mere five calories in the average ejaculation.

You know the thing about ‘Is it in yet?’. Well sometimes I really feel like asking that question. I can feel him penetrate but that’s about it!

The vagina becomes balloon shaped once you’re aroused, meaning it’s smaller and tighter at the entrance than it is deeper inside. Once thrusting continues,you also become desensitised to the sensation as your pelvic floor muscles tire and stop clenching his penis. Fix it by experimenting with different positions which alter the angle and put two firm pillows under your bottom while he’s on top.